After You Say "I Do"

I would really like to compare that to the readings and questions of "Before You Say "I Do"" and see how big of a difference there is. Maybe reading it 6 years ago would have been a great benefit to me in one way or another. But apart from having my thoughts in the past, I really have only few good answers to the current questions. This is rather difficult. I don't think it's just because it's 1 am either. I think it's because I truly don't have many good answers. There are friendships that I have with a few people that I can give good answers to all of these questions and it be much more of what I am looking for. So, consider me discouraged, as if today wasn't enough of a discouragement.

Sometimes I feel like I am running circles chasing the tail that has been surgically removed, hence, I will never catch it. That's definite discouragement and frustration mixed with quite the stupidity. Faith can often appear to some as stupidity. I look at myself lately and wonder if it's stupidity or faith or maybe even a combination of the two. I am guessing it's probably a good combination.

10 different things that are a firm foundation? Psshhh...please don't make me laugh right now. Really? 10? You want 10? I don't have 10. I may have 2. MAYBE.

Now take a separate sheet of paper and list the reasons why I got married. You really want me to take out a separate sheet of paper? I can write it in the 1 inch block provided below the question. No need to waste a perfectly good sheet of paper. Then write why I think he married me? That one may fit in a 2 inch block if you can provide that for me too. People, MAKE GOOD DECISIONS WHEN THEY'RE IMPORTANT AND LIFE LONG! DON'T BE AN IDIOT!!

Finally, "discuss with your spouse". That means to talk. to. me. If it says "discuss" then it isn't complete until the discussion has taken place. Discussing includes communication of some sort, at some point, in order for there to be completion. Please and thank you very much.

And furthermore......I just wanted to say furthermore to add a little bit of awkward humor to the mix. 'Cause who says "furthermore" in a blog?